7/24/09 @ 6:04pm
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I am curious what kind of things turn on the models. It doesn't have to be sexual, but what turns you on?
What do you look for in a lover or a mate?
As Austin Powers said "Do I make u horny Baby?" or something like that.
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I think you have me figured out already, I love smart guys who can make me laugh. And bonus points if they have a penis. If your a little dorky and you read a lot, I'll probably jump yuo before you ever even see me coming.
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7/24/09 @ 6:34pm
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As for what turns me on sexually... a whole lot! Kiss the back of my neck or caress the inside of my wrist and I just melt. Also, I'm a raging submissive so taking control or getting rough with me really pushes my buttons.
I also like romance. I'm not talking red roses or Mozart, for me real romance is in the day to day; a man who vacuums the house without being asked to, or who picks up my favourite choccie bar on the way home just to surprise me. That's romantic. That's the kind of guy I would marry if I believed in marriage.
Any other questions? lol
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7/24/09 @ 6:38pm
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7/24/09 @ 7:56pm
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As for what turns me on sexually... a whole lot! Kiss the back of my neck or caress the inside of my wrist and I just melt. Also, I'm a raging submissive so taking control or getting rough with me really pushes my buttons.
I also like romance. I'm not talking red roses or Mozart, for me real romance is in the day to day; a man who vacuums the house without being asked to, or who picks up my favourite choccie bar on the way home just to surprise me. That's romantic. That's the kind of guy I would marry if I believed in marriage.
Any other questions? lol
~ Saphie xoxox
That makes me perfect for you then, i often pick up a vacuum cleaner with out being asked. and belive it or not i do have a sence of humour. I also like to treat my Girl.
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7/24/09 @ 8:00pm
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someone that can be my best friend. and not take life too seriously. I dont need commitment. i just want companionship. some one whome i can laugh with on all levels. and have honesty with. with companionship comes trust.
i can not deal with lies. especialy small ones. i can handle anything thrown at me... as long as it is honest. i guess this falls back to the companionship but no need for commitment. i do not feel the need to own someone. but rather i have the want to share a life with someone.
-honesty turns me on
-the ability to laugh at ones self turns me on
-just having one that is there when i need them at times, and that wants to share MOMENTS turns me on.
nothing fancey, just a true friend i can grow old with and not have to worry if my dumb is showing from time to time.
and for the sex part?. the ability to laugh makes me hot. if i can laugh with you, it allows me to let down inhibitions. and can bring out the wild side. Quote
someone that can be my best friend. and not take life too seriously. I dont need commitment. i just want companionship. some one whome i can laugh with on all levels. and have honesty with. with companionship comes trust.
i can not deal with lies. especialy small ones. i can handle anything thrown at me... as long as it is honest. i guess this falls back to the companionship but no need for commitment. i do not feel the need to own someone. but rather i have the want to share a life with someone.
-honesty turns me on
-the ability to laugh at ones self turns me on
-just having one that is there when i need them at times, and that wants to share MOMENTS turns me on.
nothing fancey, just a true friend i can grow old with and not have to worry if my dumb is showing from time to time.
and for the sex part?. the ability to laugh makes me hot. if i can laugh with you, it allows me to let down inhibitions. and can bring out the wild side. Quote
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also, another big physical turn on (although its not a must have) for me is tattoos or piercings... and heres where i go waaaaaaaayyyyy :: but not any of that fuckin tribal tattoo bullshit... thats just unorigional. i mean come on it looks like you got prision shanked all over with a piece of glass and some ink!! lol. and I dont think any of you were actually in a tribe so whats the deal?! when I say tattoo I mean a real ARTIST from a reputible tattoo shop personally drew something up and inked ya. you know, something origional not picked off the wall flash art because oh "that looks cool",well I assure you it does not look cool when 500 other dumbass people have the exact same tattoo that youve got. oh and none of those goddamn garage tattoo artists either, I mean seriously you gotta be fuckin kidding me if youd let someone perminantely ink your body out of their basement. eww hepatitis anyone?
/end tattoo rant.
but seriously to me its not the size of the dick (unless its like the size of my thumb, then weve got a problem lol) or how much money is in the bank. All I ask is that you make me laugh and have good hygene and a nice grill and make sure you arent obese. ahhh sounds good to me Quote
Good Manners.
When I go out on a date with a new guy, I pay close attention to how he treats our server. It's an indication of how he'll treat me 6 months down the line. If he's respectful, says "Please and Thank you", makes small talk with her, is neat and doesn't make a mess all over the table, makes her smile and leaves a good tip- he's just made a very good impression on me.
Sense of Humor.
If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. The sexy Marilyn Monroe said that, and I agree. A dude that makes me belly laugh, and tears roll down my face, is a KEEPER.
Healthy Sense of Balance:
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy- but vice-versa is no good, either. Responsibility sucks, but it's necessary. Carefree living can be dangerous, but every once in awhile, goofing off and forgetting about life's stress is needed. Knowing how to balance the two is the key to living a successful life.
Compassion:
No, I don't wanna be stroked like a kitty and told everything will be okay. But a good strong hug and a kiss on the forehead can work WONDERS if you know I'm upset about something. I'm a big girl, and I can handle tough times, but it's nice to know someone will hold my hand, and has my back.
Bedroom Skills:
No, I don't need a huge cock. I need a guy that can look me in the eye while he moves inside me... someone who trips my trigger with the kind of passion that lets me know there's no place else he'd rather be. Touch me, kiss me, stroke me, caress me, lick me, suck me, fuck me, hold me, thrill me- all of it matters, all of it counts. You CAN fuck and make love at the same time. Trust me. And the guy that can do both with me will have my loyalty.
Romance:
I'll never ask a guy why he can't be more romantic. I wouldn't be with a guy who doesn't know how. Pick me a flower and hand it to me when we take a walk. Write me a love letter. Breakfast in bed every once in awhile. Surprise with the newest book from my favorite author. Bring home a sweet treat for me. Simple things that don't cost a ton but go a long way towards investing in our future.
That's the basics for me. I don't think I'm that demanding or picky. Notice I didnt say a thing about looks. As long as you dont have a face that scares small children- we're good. But.... sexy eyes are a HUGE turn on for me. Quote
but yes romance is great.... I like to be taken out, usually on ladies night so my drinks are free... so the most I ask is for you to dance I love dancin! and also I aggree with the responsibility aspect of your comment... balance is key! also yaanno it is nice to get a back rub and whatnot every once in awhile mmmmm thank god for poseidon hehe! I also like to hear "I love you" often. Quote